Saturday, November 16, 2013


 Welcome! If your here it's because you've asked to be. Which also means your either a friend, family member, or follower of my former blog.

Being as such, I owe you explanations.

First, why a new blog and why private. The answer is more complicated than I want to get into here and now. Some of you will "get it" without explanation. The rest of you simply, hopefully, can understand a desire for privacy. To some degrees I like having our experiences open to the public because it's interesting to people and we like sharing and educating the world about life as truckers. But sometimes you reach a point in life where you just need to withdraw a little bit and surround yourself with safe people you can depend on and trust. I'm at that point right now.

I tapered off on blogging because I lost the motivation to blog. And also because there was so much drama and trauma going on, and I just couldn't write without letting some of the negativity leach it's way into my writing. And being as my beloved blog, Between the Fenceposts, was open to the public and read by participants in the drama and trauma....well it  was just further motivation to withdraw and close up shop. I kept trying to get back into it, but I never could make myself do it. And it's something that's supposed to be enjoyable for me. I decided if I was having to force myself to blog, then it had lost it's purpose and I didn't need to be blogging.

I've been Facebooking. And loving it. I think it feeds my lifelong attraction to instant gratification. Kind of like I never liked practicing piano. I just wanted to sit down and play like a pro.
Well a few weeks ago I got frustrated with myself and my seeming inability to be concise and not wordy on my Facebook status updates and comments. I try so hard to keep it short, but I can't! And Facebook doesn't work well with wordy, rambling status updates. So I spent some late night driving time pondering how to learn to say what I want to say in shorter phrases, and why do I get so wordy anyway? And I realized this...

I'm a writer and writers use words!
I miss writing! I miss being able to use as many and whatever words I want to use!

And so I need to try to blog again.

I'm going to give this a try. The motivation still ebbs and flows. These inspirations to start a new blog happened a couple weeks ago and I'm just not getting around to doing it, because the motivation left me again. I can't promise that I'll be as thorough of a blogger as I used to be. I'd like to think I will be, but we have to wait and see what happens.

I'm glad you stuck with me through my lengthy silence and I hope I don't let you down here. But like I said, we will see.

About the name:
I'm not good at naming things! It's so hard! Take my last blog, Between the Fenceposts, for instance. I loved the name! It had absolutely NOTHING to do with what I was writing about. I'm not sure it had anything to do with anything!
I had to ask for help on this one. I wanted it to reflect what I'd be writing about: trucking, my horses, what I'm doing while I'm home. And I got some really nice suggestions. One of my favorites was Tails and Trails, but when I went to create my new blog, that was apparently already taken. The other one I really liked was Tales of the Flying Lady. It was Malcolm's creation.
It is inspired by Malcolm's beloved hood ornament. She is a reproduction 1930-32 Cadillac hood ornament, and he has loved her for a long time, so when he got this truck last year, he ordered his hood ornament. Somehow she started ending up in a lot of my "through the windshield" photos that I was posting on Facebook. And she became admired and developed a fan club.

I've started intentionally putting her in almost all my on the road pictures.
Malcolm's blog name suggestion was catchy and original. Two things that appealed to me. I'm still not sure how to make it relate to when I write about being home and the horses, but I liked it enough to decide to work around that kink.

The "look" of the blog is still in development. It works for now. It's not really a great reflection of me, which I think the blog look should be. But neutral is a good look for the beginning stages of a new blog. And I do like gray.

So I think that about wraps up the explanations. At least for now.
My blogging may not be as frequent as it was in years past, but probably it will be just as wordy. ;) And now that I've finally learned how to work with this Windows 8, I'll be able to include pictures without too much of a headache and that will help me stay motivated. Pictures are a big part of my blogging and Windows 8 was such a pain about how it wanted me to work with pictures...well I've come to terms with it, and had a techy person show me some stuff, and now that it's not an out right battle to post pictures I think that will help my motivation some.

Thanks for joining me here at the new location. I'll be back around in a bit to visit, but I want to give it a few days to let everyone find where I am now and get you all "invited" to join the blog.

This feels good. I hope it lasts.


  1. I love the name!
    Glad you're back!
    Love the pictures!
    Love your words!!!

  2. I have always loved reading your blog and your facebook. I hope this blog helps you to feel more safe and open. I soooooooooooooooo get that. It is great to meet lots of new people and to share your life but i have found sometimes people can be mean and negative and that can make it hard. Oh and when people use it to "keep tabs" on you that is hard to. Hope this works much better for ya as I love your writting:)

  3. Your invite worked. I do like the idea of pictures showing the flying lady in your posts. Very cool!

  4. I made it ~ thank you for the invite. I "love" the name of your blog and the connection to your hubby! Fly On!

  5. Got the invitation, thanks. Love the hood ornament, and I'm pretty sure there are no rules stating that it has to be pertinent to every blog post. I think it's cool that it's a reflection of who you are, what you do, and who you love. I'll happily read your posts whenever you feel like putting one out there.

    BTW, can you send your Windows8 guy over here? I finally had to change my settings so that Pictures are handled in Windows7 mode.

  6. Thanks for the invite- I feel honoured! (and yes, I use Canadian spelling!)

  7. Lots of kudos on the name and vision for this new venue! Keep flying, indeed, with lots of home trips mixed in there, too!

  8. Thank you for inviting me to read your new blog and see your beautiful pictures. I love the hood ornament and using it as a name for your blog. I look forward to coming here to enjoy your writing and photos. Best wishes!